Incarnational Seers
# Ernie
- Not wanting to incarnate into other peoples dysfunction
- Do I want to heal people from their brokenness so that I can identify with them? VS
- Am I willing to identify with people in their brokenness so that God can heal us
# Robby
- Jesus, how do I grow closer to You in such a way that Your Spirit most deeply shapes what I want and what I pursue?
- A common tension -- between pursuing the mission and caring for the members -- reflects the feelings among my own family that I “don’t care about them.”
- The most important question for me is “What does Jesus want?”
- My focus tends to then be on how *I* can pursue what *I* imagine He wants.
- However this overlooks the reality that the first thing He wants from me is intimacy with me.
# Reframing Offense
"Being versus Feeling Annoyed"
"Being versus Feeling Annoyed"
- Objective analysis (of their wrong)
- Self-awareness (of my "blaming" thought cycles)
- Emotional introspection (of the anger/frustration behind those cycles)
- Humble recognition (that my issues intersect with theirs)
- Conscious identification (that we both need the same grace)